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		<title>By: Cat (WildCat Designs)</title>
		<link>http://modernemotive.com/blog/2010/01/20/this-self-employed-life-sorry-were-closed/comment-page-1/#comment-254</link>
		<dc:creator>Cat (WildCat Designs)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 19:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I had a similar situation myself just around the Christmas/New Year period. I too was feeling burnt-out and completely overwhelmed with orders. This led to getting the flu and the realisation of having really just too many things going on in my life (up til now I have been part-time self-employed, part-time employed and am completing a one-year web design course). So I bit the bullet and closed my shop for a couple of weeks (even with the knowledge that I often have late-comers for xmas gifts, and last year continued to sell well into the new year) and I tend to be indecisive, so this was not an easy decision to make!&lt;br&gt;...suffice to say it was the right choice for me, as I have had time to recover and think about things, plus dream up some new product ideas. This actually led to making the decision to quit my part-time job and concentrate on doing what I love (textiles).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I had a similar situation myself just around the Christmas/New Year period. I too was feeling burnt-out and completely overwhelmed with orders. This led to getting the flu and the realisation of having really just too many things going on in my life (up til now I have been part-time self-employed, part-time employed and am completing a one-year web design course). So I bit the bullet and closed my shop for a couple of weeks (even with the knowledge that I often have late-comers for xmas gifts, and last year continued to sell well into the new year) and I tend to be indecisive, so this was not an easy decision to make!<br />&#8230;suffice to say it was the right choice for me, as I have had time to recover and think about things, plus dream up some new product ideas. This actually led to making the decision to quit my part-time job and concentrate on doing what I love (textiles).</p>
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		<title>By: modernemotive: eco-friendly paper goods &#187; Blog Archive &#187; This Self-Employed Life: Follow Up to Sorry We’re Closed</title>
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		<dc:creator>modernemotive: eco-friendly paper goods &#187; Blog Archive &#187; This Self-Employed Life: Follow Up to Sorry We’re Closed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:15:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] of all, I just wanted to thank everyone who commented on this post for their most sincere and thoughtful opinions regarding my struggle about whether to close up my [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] of all, I just wanted to thank everyone who commented on this post for their most sincere and thoughtful opinions regarding my struggle about whether to close up my [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 02:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am in the exact same situation right now, with the exact same issues! Working on wholesale...my website...new products...it&#039;s difficult! I, too, am hesitant to close up shop, but at the same time when will my &quot;to do&#039;s&quot; ever get done? Not to mention, keeping my sanity, doing things I love, and spending time with my family all get pushed to the back as well. I still am on the fence right now...I hope you are able to make a decision soon that you are comfortable with!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am in the exact same situation right now, with the exact same issues! Working on wholesale&#8230;my website&#8230;new products&#8230;it&#8217;s difficult! I, too, am hesitant to close up shop, but at the same time when will my &#8220;to do&#8217;s&#8221; ever get done? Not to mention, keeping my sanity, doing things I love, and spending time with my family all get pushed to the back as well. I still am on the fence right now&#8230;I hope you are able to make a decision soon that you are comfortable with!</p>
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		<title>By: Tara (Boutique Karma)</title>
		<link>http://modernemotive.com/blog/2010/01/20/this-self-employed-life-sorry-were-closed/comment-page-1/#comment-96</link>
		<dc:creator>Tara (Boutique Karma)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 15:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adele,

I think in your situation with Valentines day just around the corner stay open for another 2 weeks and then take a hiatus to work on your other projects. Let your customers know to stock up in advance (and they will).

You have the feedback &amp; the following for your store to survive a temporary closure. Just don&#039;t be a stranger because we&#039;ll miss you :)

Tara</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adele,</p>
<p>I think in your situation with Valentines day just around the corner stay open for another 2 weeks and then take a hiatus to work on your other projects. Let your customers know to stock up in advance (and they will).</p>
<p>You have the feedback &amp; the following for your store to survive a temporary closure. Just don&#8217;t be a stranger because we&#8217;ll miss you :)</p>
<p>Tara</p>
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		<title>By: Isa Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isa Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 13:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Adele,

It sounds like a break from things would do you good. Maybe close down after Valentine&#039;s Day and recharge your batteries in time to launch your wedding line in the Spring. 

I know how you feel although I&#039;m not in the same situation. Business is slow for me (growing organically ;) and I have a little boy and another on the way (early days so shhh don&#039;t tell!) I am completely exhausted and I&#039;m trying to launch a new business that will satisfy my creative urges. I love my marketing business as I get to help so many great creative people but my target market has no money and it&#039;s hard to compete with people who are able to be online promoting all day everyday. I have thought about closing for a while while I launch my new biz but since I&#039;m not getting many sales at the moment it wouldn&#039;t make much difference. It&#039;s my blog really that takes time to generate new articles and I do a lot of free work but I don&#039;t want to let anyone down by stopping those.

Anyway I just thought I&#039;d add so you know you are not alone. And really only you know what&#039;s best for you and your business. That&#039;s the joy of being self-employed after all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Adele,</p>
<p>It sounds like a break from things would do you good. Maybe close down after Valentine&#8217;s Day and recharge your batteries in time to launch your wedding line in the Spring. </p>
<p>I know how you feel although I&#8217;m not in the same situation. Business is slow for me (growing organically ;) and I have a little boy and another on the way (early days so shhh don&#8217;t tell!) I am completely exhausted and I&#8217;m trying to launch a new business that will satisfy my creative urges. I love my marketing business as I get to help so many great creative people but my target market has no money and it&#8217;s hard to compete with people who are able to be online promoting all day everyday. I have thought about closing for a while while I launch my new biz but since I&#8217;m not getting many sales at the moment it wouldn&#8217;t make much difference. It&#8217;s my blog really that takes time to generate new articles and I do a lot of free work but I don&#8217;t want to let anyone down by stopping those.</p>
<p>Anyway I just thought I&#8217;d add so you know you are not alone. And really only you know what&#8217;s best for you and your business. That&#8217;s the joy of being self-employed after all.</p>
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		<title>By: pennyglassgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>pennyglassgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 12:46:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adele,

Sorry that you are faced with such a hard decision. Obviously, you have a lot of people behind you and your business (wow, look at all these great and positive posts!). I closed down for a week just before Christms (crazy, but I couldn&#039;t keep up with everyone&#039;s last minute panic). When I opened up again, I really did have a creative spurt of energy and a new, better rested eye to look at my business.

Best of luck in everything</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adele,</p>
<p>Sorry that you are faced with such a hard decision. Obviously, you have a lot of people behind you and your business (wow, look at all these great and positive posts!). I closed down for a week just before Christms (crazy, but I couldn&#8217;t keep up with everyone&#8217;s last minute panic). When I opened up again, I really did have a creative spurt of energy and a new, better rested eye to look at my business.</p>
<p>Best of luck in everything</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole : Three By Sea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole : Three By Sea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 02:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Girl, I feel your pain. I&#039;m going through some creative crisis of my own and find myself just wanting to unplug from it all and really think about what I&#039;m trying to accomplish and what I&#039;m really all about. I feel like I&#039;m headed in the right &quot;general&quot; direction, but I&#039;m taking some long, roundabout route to get there. If I just stopped for a minute and took the time to map out my route, I might get there a bit quicker than if I just keep using something really vague, like the sun, to guide me! Does that make any sense?! If not, feel free to delete this comment-LOL!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Girl, I feel your pain. I&#8217;m going through some creative crisis of my own and find myself just wanting to unplug from it all and really think about what I&#8217;m trying to accomplish and what I&#8217;m really all about. I feel like I&#8217;m headed in the right &#8220;general&#8221; direction, but I&#8217;m taking some long, roundabout route to get there. If I just stopped for a minute and took the time to map out my route, I might get there a bit quicker than if I just keep using something really vague, like the sun, to guide me! Does that make any sense?! If not, feel free to delete this comment-LOL!</p>
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		<title>By: Cheryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:09:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adele, I am going through the same thing you are right now. It&#039;s like we are leading similar lives! Although I sell craft supplies it&#039;s still a struggle for me to do everything I want to do every day. I want to start a newsletter, talk more on twitter, research more fabric lines but I just don&#039;t have time to do it all and still take care of my family.

I need to find a more sustainable way to run my business (ie. me not working 12+ hours a day and doing every job - web developer, photographer, blogger, email correspondent, buyer etc) but just don&#039;t know where to start on this. :(

Sorry I have no advice to give you. I do want to say though that I understand your struggle and hope that you&#039;ll be able to figure out the best decision for you and your business.

XO</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adele, I am going through the same thing you are right now. It&#8217;s like we are leading similar lives! Although I sell craft supplies it&#8217;s still a struggle for me to do everything I want to do every day. I want to start a newsletter, talk more on twitter, research more fabric lines but I just don&#8217;t have time to do it all and still take care of my family.</p>
<p>I need to find a more sustainable way to run my business (ie. me not working 12+ hours a day and doing every job &#8211; web developer, photographer, blogger, email correspondent, buyer etc) but just don&#8217;t know where to start on this. :(</p>
<p>Sorry I have no advice to give you. I do want to say though that I understand your struggle and hope that you&#8217;ll be able to figure out the best decision for you and your business.</p>
<p>XO</p>
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		<title>By: PJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>PJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 00:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe a compromise would be to stay open through Valentine&#039;s Day because that seems to be a lucrative time for stationers and then commit to closing from the end of February through March?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe a compromise would be to stay open through Valentine&#8217;s Day because that seems to be a lucrative time for stationers and then commit to closing from the end of February through March?</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adele, I have found myself in this situation plenty of times.  But never did anything about it.  I&#039;m actually going to be closing the shop for a few weeks at the end of February.  Mostly because I am moving, so I don&#039;t have a choice.  But I am also looking forward to the down time to focus on other things.  I think you&#039;re doing a good thing.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adele, I have found myself in this situation plenty of times.  But never did anything about it.  I&#8217;m actually going to be closing the shop for a few weeks at the end of February.  Mostly because I am moving, so I don&#8217;t have a choice.  But I am also looking forward to the down time to focus on other things.  I think you&#8217;re doing a good thing.  :)</p>
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