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Working Weekend

Chris Overworked

Truth be told, I work in some capacity most weekends. That said, how productive I am is debatable as I tend to call Twitter or any computer related activity “work” when it’s convenient for me to do so.

This weekend is different. I have some fire in me that wants to get a whole slew of stuff out of the way and so I’m rolling with it. Don’t quote me on that though. But let’s pretend I do stick to my plan, here’s what I’m hoping to get done… shoot new products, reshoot some old products, get some ideas out of my chaotic head and into Illustrator … oh and admin, lovely jubley admin.

Of course I’ll throw in some downtime too but a lot of the above has been neglected due to procrastination. Yes, the lady with procrastination pads procrastinates. Go figure huh?

What about you? Slave to your work this weekend or is it filled with non-work related fun?

P.S. For the record, I don’t feel as overworked as the image shows and I hope you don’t either. :)

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Who’s pace are you running at?

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I came across a fantastic article this morning called Why Better is Better Than Best by Simon Sinek of Re:Focus. With so many small business blogs out there proclaiming they have the golden key to success, it’s easy to become jaded when business related articles come my way. But this one really hit home for me and got me thinking.

First let me share the introductory paragraphs to bring it into context:

The fastest runners in the world run between 12-14mph (19-23kph). The average bear runs between 30-40mph (48-64kph).  That means if a bear decides to give chase, even Usain Bolt, the world record sprinter, could not outrun it.

But there is an adage: to get away from a bear you don’t have to be the fastest runner in the world, you just have to be faster than the guy behind you.

The same is true in business.

Except taken from Why Better is Better Than Best by Simon Sinek of Re:Focus.

Pretty simple concept huh?

It’s extremely easy for us to get too caught up in what our competitors are doing. It’s just as easy for us to lay down because our insecurities tell us they are better and that we can never be as good. Essentially we drop our pace to watch them. It’s almost like slowing down to look at a car wreck on the highway. But guess what? Cars in other lanes have somewhere to be and so they just keep going. They keep their eyes firmly on their destination and quickly zoom past you.

I’ll be honest, I don’t consciously keep tabs on my competition. Of course, I see work of stationers all time. More often than not, I admire the beauty of their work rather than looking at it through envious eyes. Undoubtedly on occasion I see something and think “man, I wish I’d thought of that” or “I wish I were able to create work in that style” but I let that feeling out fast and move on. If I hold onto it, I find one of two things happen: (1) I come to a standstill; or (2) I find myself trying to change what is natural to me and something I can run with. If you allow either of these to happen, you’ll soon realize you’re running in the wrong direction which is backwards rather than forwards.

At the end of the day, I am extremely confident in my work and instincts as a designer. In some ways, I think that’s the key to design or at least it is for me. It’s important to work with your gut and instincts vs trying to be something you’re not. Quit jumping on a bandwagon because everyone else is doing it and it sells. When you do, you’re just running at their pace (plus letting THEM determine YOUR pace) and because they’ve been running longer than you, they’ll probably still outrun you anyway. So, next time you find yourself spending way too much time worrying about your competition, remember that you’re slowing yourself down and there’s someone behind you itching to pass you by.

As for the best vs better, this is a whole other post and so for now I’ll just say this. You see it all the time, people proclaiming they want to take over the world, be #1 in the category (or think they already are) or perhaps think they have everything figured out and only success will come their way… the list goes on. While there’s nothing wrong in having those goals in your sight (though the take over the world one always makes me roll my eyes), when you do achieve that, assuming you do, then what? Don’t assume you’ll never have to run again, because you will, and while you stand upon legs that don’t fail you, you should be.

Who’s pace are you running at? Yours or theirs?

P.S. I think the photo above sums up the article I referenced perfectly. The wanting to be the best vs better. Even when you reach the end of something (perhaps your ultimate goal) you still have to do something. So, unless you are ready to just stand still or turnaround, you had better get ready for your next destination.

Photo Credit: Julia Lillqvist

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4 and a half months

Springtime Joy

Yesterday I was putting together a shop game plan for the remainder of the year. I came to a realization. We are a mere 4.5 months away from 2011. Now let’s get the “WTF, OMG, say it isn’t so?, where did the year go?” responses out of the way, trust me, it ran immediately through my head too along with my Twitter buddies when I tweeted my realization.

We always hear (or proclaim it ourselves) the saying “time is flying” and boy, saying it yesterday was one HUGE wake up call. I had big goals for 2010. I’ll be the first to raise my hand and say those goals were derailed with an unexpected hiatus amongst other life events. I’ll also admit that I’ve dropped the ball and lacked in my follow through countless times. There’s no denying it.

While it would be easy for me to sit here and rue the facts (and believe me, here and there I will) all I can promise myself over the next 4.5 months is to give it my everything. To walk new paths and venture outside of my comfort zone. It’s pointless for me to look back on 2010 so far and see it as a failure. I don’t talk about every aspect of my life here and what can’t be shown on paper, or in sales and revenue is the life-changing events that have occurred. Thankfully mostly for the better.

Whenever I’d go quiet over here or throughout my break, I’d always bemoan the fact that I wasn’t sharing everything with you guys. I felt this need to justify why it appeared as though I was doing absolutely nothing while in the background things were often changing faster than I could comprehend. I’ve come (need!) to accept the most of 2010 wasn’t meant to be about modernemotive directly but more the centre of it – me. So, I can’t chastise myself for taking the time to recoup from it all. Truth be told, I was still regrouping from much of 2009s events too as well as other things. It’s typical of me to push any aftermath aside and keep chugging on. Eventually it all catches up to you but at some point you have to let it all go. Eventually you have to say goodbye to the “what ifs” and regrets. We have no choice.

As I’ve already said, it’s time to put everything I have into this. To put it mildly, I gotta kick some ass! When I used to work agency-side, no matter where I went, I was always known as the go-to girl to get things done with the key being I’d get it done fast with great results. There’s some slight irony that I take forever to get my self-assigned work complete, but with no bosses breathing down my neck, it’s easy to do. Very easy! So, I need to find that girl again and squeeze every drop of possibility out of the next 4.5 months. I’m ready.

What’s your take on 2010 so far? On track with your goals? And if not, what are your next steps to rev yourself up?

Photo Credit: .Mallory Beth.

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Time for change

I mentioned yesterday that September is the month of renewal for me. As luck would have it, September is gearing up to be a fantastic month. So far on deck I have a trip planned to Montreal for the Labour Day weekend to hang with J’s sister and my good friend Michelle of Holley & Gill. We also have the condo re-do. Then I won tickets via @unmarketing for the pre-season opening game for the Toronto Maple Leafs. We’re in the 100 section. 16 rows from the ice. OMG.  Yah for September.

Another task weighing on my mind for September is a personal make-over too. I need it both externally and internally. I wrote about it before but erm, well, I didn’t follow though. No surprises there. We’ll ignore the fact this is a pattern with me. Trust me, I know it. I’m quite perceptive at identifying all my issues, but becoming reactive in fixing them is a whole other matter so let’s move on for now…

Some days I feel as though I’d be the perfect candidate for What Not to Wear. I’ve been so freakin’ sloppy with my appearance lately I sometimes cringe when I see my reflection in a shop window and come to the realization that I left the house looking quite frankly like shit! I haven’t had a professional hair cut in far too long, barely bought any new clothes this year, more often than not leave my eyebrow maintenance to the last minute… yes, what a pretty picture I paint huh? I can assure you it’s not as bad as it sounds. I mean, I’m not sat here looking like a total bum or anything (well most days) but I know I could respect myself a little better and put in more effort.

Another reason I need this make-over is because I’m tired of holding back from meeting new people due to my own insecurities. This feeling is ingrained in me due to a multitude of things but I know a good starting point to overcome this is working on my outer appearance. I’m not saying this will fix everything but I have to start somewhere.

I’ve built a fabulous network on local Toronto people on Twitter that I’d love to meet in person. I really believe one of the reasons I’m not moving modernemotive forward as much as I’d like is because I’m working in this self-contained bubble that is simply restraining me. One can only work alone for so long before the lines become blurred and you no longer know who you are or what you’re doing. I need to fix this. I need to spend more time with people that inspire me and give me the energy to keep at it. Working alone tends to suck all of that out of you and often you’ve floated away so far you don’t know how to make the trip back back to the self you know and trust.

What about you? Got any plans for personal change in the coming months?

EDITED TO ADD: Just wanted to clarify that the “make-over” will start now so I can start September in a happier place. While it feels odd to assign a timeline to something like this as it’s really continuous work, as September is going to be so much fun, I figured it would help me to have some goals to work towards.

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Craving Fall

Since returning from my camping trip and perhaps because we’ve entered August, I can’t help but crave Fall. Without a doubt, it’s my favorite season. While many adopt the New Year as their time for renewal, for me, it’s September and Fall. Just like the trees shed their months of wear and tear in preparation for new growth, I tend to do that also.

Yesterday, my Twitter buddy @bklyncontessa and I were sharing all the things we love about Fall and here’s some of the things we came up with:

apple pies, thanksgiving, hand-knit scarves, halloween, raking leaves, bonfires, oktoberest, fondue, hot chocolate, apple cider, pumpkins, smell of wet leaves, nut carts, rain, blankets, the crisp air, the warmth of home as you enter the door, wool sweaters…

The list just goes on and on.

What about you? What’s your favorite things about Fall? Are you craving it too?

Photo Credit: Steven Brisson

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