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I took the plunge

Early this week, an email appeared in my Inbox from a retail store located in Boston requesting my notepads for wholesale. As can be expected, my initial reaction was “OMG, so cool!”. I’ve had many requests. But then, reality sets in when I realize I’m not set-up to wholesale and still need to iron out many details. Yes, I know, I know, it’s been on my to-do list forever. But, let’s not go there. I’m saving that for another post.

Anyway, I fired off an email letting them know when I plan on officially opening up for wholesale (I have a plan I swear) but they asked if there was anyway they could get some for the Holiday season. This request made me pause. Did I really want to lose a potential opportunity because I didn’t feel ready? Because perhaps everything won’t be as perfect as I would hope? I didn’t. I couldn’t. I owed it to myself to just say YES and let the chips fall where they may. So, I did. I said yes.

I’ll share more on the actual shop soon. It’s truly beautiful and worthy of it’s own dedicated post. But I will say it’s stocked with the most beautiful, eco and sustainable products. And, that my little paper goods are going to be amongst the work of some of my favorite stationery designers. I’m honored, excited, nervous and everything in between.

So, yes, modernemotive is heading to Boston. I did it. I took the plunge.

Splash!!

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This Self-Employed Life: Are you becoming a technology recluse?

The concept that technology and social media is making us anti-social isn’t a new one. Just Google it and see. There is no denying that social media is opening up the doors for communication and providing us with opportunities that may otherwise have been impossible. It certainly has for me. However, I’d hazard a guess that many of us aren’t taking those relationships and/or opportunities offline in order to seize their full potential.

While I have benefited immensely from social media, it some ways, it’s also hindering my business when it comes to my communication skills. Though many are surprised to hear this, I can be a pretty shy person in real life. Until I get to know someone, I’m often the quietest person in a room. This isn’t because I’m guarded or intentionally anti-social, plain and simple, I’m just shy. Nothing wrong with that. However, if technology is allowing you to avoid dealing with that shyness/self-confidence/whatever, I do believe you’ll begin to see the effects trickle over into your business where a lack of confidence isn’t invited to the table.

Think about it. It’s far easier to exude confidence in an email or online situation. We have all the time in the world to script a typed communication that’s laced with conviction and self-confidence. Yet, ask yourself this… could you do that via the phone or face-to-face? If your answer is no, you may want to assess how your reliance on online communications is effecting your business today and potentially in the future.

Often when my cell rings, I’ll let it go to voice-mail and later respond via email. Rather than set up an face-to-face meeting with someone, I’ll drive all communications through online venues. When talking in person with someone about my business, a quick exchange of URLs/email addresses will occur. While all of these scenarios are certainly convenient, I do believe this convenience can manifest into a problem overtime. If we are constantly by-passing face-to-face interactions in favor of online interactions, is it safe to say that for many our communication skills in person will begin to deteriorate?

Case in point (and this is one of many I could share), James and I were in a very high-end store here in Toronto a little while ago. Amongst other things, this store offers stationery – primarily for weddings – but also other paper goods. While I chose to walk around the store as inconspicuous as possible, James being a very outgoing person, walked up to a chap sat at a desk and plain out asked for the buyer. Turns out, he was the buyer and I was suddenly forced to communicate face-to-face about my business.

Did I have the same confidence/conviction as I would have via email? No. I didn’t have the time to “script” the perfect pitch and so I fumbled my way through the conversation. Sure, I walked away with his business card, but did I do my business justice? No. While that awkward interaction may be forgotten when I approach him for a possible wholesale opportunity, if I overlook the fact that I’m relying too much on online interactions and my communication skills in person are deteriorating as a result, I will continually fumble my way through face-to-face interactions and eventually it will be remembered.

Therein potentially lies the problem. The strategies and confidence we play out and display online need to extend offline too. The time we invest in building our “online presence” and relationships needs to be invested in our offline communications/personalities also. Both are equally important and combined can significantly drive the growth of your business. While you can certainly play in the online world with great success, if you can’t play face-to-face with the same confidence, the only person you’ll exclude is yourself and ultimately your business.

So, my question to you is this… while you may be navigating the world of social media with confidence and conviction are you doing so face-to-face as well? Or are you relying too much on online communications and becoming a technology recluse?

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This Self-Employed Life: Comfort Zones

We all have our comfort zones in life and let’s face it, they can be nice places to reside, but what about in business? Do comfort zones have a place in business? Or do they simply hinder our professional growth?

Comfort Zone
Definition: an environment or situation in which a person feels secure or at ease; also figuratively, an established lifestyle in which a person feels comfortable as long as there is no drastic change
Dictionary.com

After living in my professional comfort zones last year for longer than I care to admit, for the most part, I believe they are a hindrance. Some might argue that a comfort zone in business is finding your niche, sticking with that niche and not exploring others. Is that necessarily a bad thing? Depends on your business goals and other factors. However, for today, I’m just going to talk about comfort zones that you need to run beyond. The ones holding you back.

The reality is, when you step outside of your comfort zone once, you’ll find yourself wanting to take more steps down new and exciting paths. Essentially, your expanding your comfort zone and causing a ripple effect. Here’s how…

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For me, the first step outside of my comfort zone will be getting my wholesale division up and running. In 2009, I approached this project intermittently, often putting it down after a day or two. There were many reasons but the main one was fear. Would retailers buy my projects? Was my line-sheet and catalogue professional enough? Did I have enough products? Would I be able to handle the orders? How would I handle invoicing? The questions where endless and perhaps if I’m honest with myself, just served as great excuses to stick where I was – in my comfort zone.

The matter of the fact is, I won’t know until I try. I can’t leave my business in the hands of the “what ifs”. It’s my job to steer it. Of course, I’m not saying that one should jump right in to things with the blinders on and hope for the best. Some planning has to be done and certain structures put in place. However, sometimes you have to leave things to the unknown because you won’t find the answers until you truly ask the question and that can mean taking a walk to the other side.

Funnily enough, I was chatting with Jan DiCintio of Daisy Janie yesterday regarding wholesaling and here’s some advice she gave me…

“Try not to get too hung up on the precedent-setting nature of how you handle your first forays into wholesale – if you do, you’ll miss out! I know I did – I got so worked up about everything being just so that I often missed the window of opportunity.”

This mindset can be applied to many areas in business (and life!) and here’s what she went on to say later that is equally relevant…

“So many times we feel our presentation to the world has to be so perfect and impressive that we waste valuable time getting ourselves out there. Like… my logo’s not good enough, my website isn’t right, my photography looks horrible… and while it definitely is a good idea to have these things look good and properly branded, sometimes we set the bar so high for ourselves that we never get over it!”

This advice was just what I needed. Sometimes you need to reach out to others and simply learn from their experiences. Often, you may hear what you already know, but sometimes you don’t truly hear it until someone else says it. Again, this can mean stepping outside of your comfort zone.

Now, here’s where I think the ripple effect comes in. Deep down, I’m confident retailers will respond to my product offering positively. If I wasn’t, then really, what the hell am I doing here? Do I believe that once I see a “return” on my wholesale adventure I’ll have the confidence to expand my product line? Yes! Do I believe order fulfillment will eventually lead to production outsourcing? Yes! Do I believe the increased revenue will allow me to explore other business ideas outside of paper goods? Yes!

Guess what? All these answers mean I’m successfully adhering to my business plan. My goals. My hopes for modernemotive. And all I had to do was step outside of my comfort zone. Of course, I don’t expect it to be easy. I’m sure I’ll be stepping on the “roller-coaster” of business many times. But this time, this year, I’m going to sit back, let my hair blow in the wind and scream in excitement. I’m ready for the ride.

Now, my question to you is… what are you going to do to step outside of your comfort zone this year?

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